Wapahani’s Haidan Gates serves during the away game on Monday against Yorktown. Yorktown won the game 3-0.
SELMA — Haidan Gates sat on the steps leading up to the second level of bleachers in Waphani’s gym after a practice in mid-August. Her coach, Jared Richardson, dismissed the rest of the team before asking her a simple question: How do you feel about where you’re at right now?
Then she started to cry.
Months earlier, Gates and the Raiders were playing at an offseason tournament at Indiana Wesleyan. Gates was unable to handle three serves in a row, so Richardson pulled the senior for Havyn Gates — Haidan’s freshman sister.
“I was like, ‘No, my freshman sister is going in for me? This is unbelievable,’” Haidan recalls.
“She slapped my hand so hard,” Havyn says. “It was so bad.”
It was just a preseason tournament, and Richardson had been rotating a lot of freshmen into the lineup, like Estella Davis and Sarah Orme. Richardson, after all, had to see what he had. But this felt … different.
Haidan was caught off guard. Not only was she being replaced on the right side in the back row, where she was hoping to break through as a senior, but her kid sister was the one replacing her.
The substitution was meant to sting. Richardson felt like it was better to get the sting out of the way early on, so Haidan could move on — because Richardson did envision a major role for Haidan, though it wasn’t on the court. He outlined it for her after that preseason practice.
“It was that moment where I really started talking about, you’re the kid this program needs,” Richardson says, reliving the conversation. “You’re the first one setting up setting nets when the bell rings, the first one shagging balls when a drill ends and making sure everything gets picked up.
“At the end of the day, I know how bad you want it. But in the grand scheme of things in life, how bad would you want it for your little sister, knowing how good she is? That was our turning point.”
Wapahani defeated Marion-Grant Tuesday, Oct, 27, 2015.
Haidan’s challenge was to continue to be that positive example for a Wapahani squad that features three freshmen and three sophomores in major roles — and especially for a certain freshman that she calls “the most competitive” in the Gates family.
Havyn is known for her desire to win, whether it be on the volleyball court or during card games like “Gotcha!”. She’s a talented back-row volleyball player too, tallying 226 digs in 88 sets this season. But she also notes how bad her attitude used to be when she didn’t perform well, and she credits Haidan for expediting that process.
“I’ve changed it, a lot, I’ve gotten a lot better,” Havyn says. “It’s partly because she tells me, ‘Hey don’t get mad about things.’”
Preseason prognosis: Wapahani, Yorktown
In many scenarios, Haidan will ask senior teammate Hannah Smith to relay a message to Havyn because sometimes the sisters “get on each other’s nerves,” like most siblings. Haidan relishes being that guiding light, and the sacrifice seems much easier now with Wapahani playing Speedway for the Class 2A state championship on Saturday.
“Now, I know that she’s so much better at it. She gets balls up, she does it all,” Haidan says, looking at her sister seated next to her after a recent practice. “You are making our team so much better than I would have ever been.
“I let her have it,” she continues. “I was really upset about it for a really long time. After he had me serve and stuff, I could handle it. I have my role now, she has hers.”
Wapahani defeated Marion-Grant Tuesday, Oct, 27, 2015.
Haidan’s contributions have extended onto the court, as well, as her 40 aces are second on the team. She served the first seven points of the second set at Madison-Grant in the regional, eventually tallying an ace to give Wapahani a 26-24 win in that set and tie the match at 1.
At one point, she had considered playing in college, but now she just wants to end her prep career in style before moving on to college and majoring in elementary education.
“High school volleyball has been the best for me,” she says. “That was my whole goal since freshman year, to win state. Get my name on that banner, just like my sister (Harley Barrett). Pretty much, that goal is going to come true, so I’ve done all I can with volleyball. I’ve done it all, everything I could.
…My name is going to be up on that banner, with my sister. And that was the biggest thing the whole year. Having her name up there too, with me.”
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